August update

Wow, it's been a while (again). So what's been going on? Well I think I can safely say that i'm over the vertigo et al that I was struggling with, thank goodness. I gained weight, and consequently freaked out. I began a strength training program and established a new meal plan for myself. I want to add HIIT sessions to this as well, but 1) i'm unfit as heck now, and 2) can't find the time just yet. I am enjoying my weights sessions though, i'm doing heavy lifting 4 days a week, focusing on just one (sometimes two) body parts. I have been seeing strength gains at each workout and this is motivating me to keep going. I am not as of yet seeing any change in my body composition however, so am giving myself regular pep talks to continue with the plan for just 6 weeks and reassess things then. I was just going to use the mirror to judge this, but I weakened this morning and did hop on those blasted scales- two weeks and no shift, but not pulling out anything drastic just yet.

I am also in to the fourth week of my mindfulness-based cognitive therapy group course. I haven't formed a consensus on this yet, other than the home practice is time consuming and this distresses me as it takes me away from the exercise i'd otherwise be doing. I counter this at times with thoughts of the longer term benefits this may bring, so am persevering.

I also just finished a relatively good book- The Eating Disorder Sourcebook, by Carolyn Costin (the women who established Monte Nido). What I wouldn't give to go there right now and see if that wouldn't make the difference in my recovery. I'm just so tired of this fight- it remains ceaseless at whatever degree of progress I make. Why can't I just get over myself and accept that i'll never have the body that I deem acceptable for myself, with our without compulsion and obsession. I really wish I could let go of the focus of my size/shape/weight and concentrate on other areas of my life, things that could potentially make a difference in this world. Why do I remain so hooked in to this? Why does it continue to present itself as the main concern in my everyday living? And why is it so distressing to maintain a bmi over 18.4?? I did learn to manage my emotions over my size/weight at a higher bmi than this, but as soon as I hit 19.5 I cannot actually stand to be in my body, and this is not scale-led, but the way in which I view my physical self; I detest my body at this point, I look awful! So scale or no scale there is always a point I reach whereby I can no longer maintain a recovery effort and lapse in order to contain my emotions. This point has moved along the years, and it's the best it's ever been these past couple of years, but still there is a sticking point, a place I can not move beyond. What is it going to take to break through this?!